25 Things To Do Instead Of Being Sad

 

“I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn’t arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I’m going to be happy in it.”- Groucho Marx

Everyone gets sad, but its how we deal with our experiences that makes or breaks us. Happiness is a choice, and that’s why we have to work so hard at it. A great way to get yourself out of a rut is to replace a negative thought or action with a positive thought or action.

Four Reasons Why You Should Let Go of The Negative 

You need to re-wire your brain because when you’re stuck in a rut it’s so easy to get in stuck in the habit of being upset. And that’s what it is– a habit. A few days after doing the same routine your body will become familiar with being sad and it will take less energy to be that way.

The book The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg explains this by giving an example of rats in a maze with a treat. When they first put the rat in the cage it didn’t know how to find the treat, it would wander around lost until it found it. The book explains that while it looked like the rat was not thinking at all, the probes of its brain painted another picture.

“Each time a rat sniffed the air or scratched a wall, it’s brain exploded with activity,as if analyzing each new scent, sight, and sound. The rat was processing information the entire time it meandered.” [Duhigg, p.15]

As the experiment was repeated, changes occurred within the animals brain, “As each rat learned how to navigate the maze, its mental activity decreased.As the route became more and more automatic, each rat started thinking less and less. It was as if the first few times a rat explored the maze, its brain had to work full power to make sense of all the new information. [But after repetition] It didn’t need to choose which direction to run, and so the decision-making centers went quiet. All it had to do was recall the quickest path to the chocolate.” [Duhigg, p.15]

The book goes on to explain that it had become so much habit for which way the rat was to go inside the maze that it would automatically go there even when they moved the chocolate in a different place, the habit had become internalized.

This process can be seen in humans as well. Think about your routine when you wake up in the morning, you wash your face, brush your teeth, in some sort of order which you cannot probably even recall because it became second nature. Or how about every time you go in an elevator you click the 4th floor automatically because that is the floor you work or live on, even if you’re supposed to go somewhere else.

The same habits are formed with our thought patterns. If you are in a rut your brain gets used to it then you will continue to be that way. Therefore, it’s important to wake yourself up with a positive jolt, just like the rats when they were put into the cage or the treat was moved somewhere else, their brain had to start working again. Just like you have to get yours working again.

And there’s good news, just how a negative pattern could be internalized within you, a positive one can too. And the way to get yourself into a better mindset is getting up and physically doing something positive.

Here are 25 things you should do instead of being sad: 

 

  1. Do something nice for someone else
  2. Read a positive blog or book
  3. Watch a feel-good movie
  4. Exercise
  5. Meditate
  6. Bake
  7. Hang out with positive friends or family
  8. Make a bucket list and do something on it
  9. Go for a walk
  10. Clean your house
  11. Write down all the things you want to change on a piece of paper then burn it in a fire pit
  12. Call someone you love and tell them how much you love them
  13. Write down all the things you are grateful to have
  14. Make a list of positive affirmations
  15. Write a letter to yourself and tell you what you love about you
  16. Volunteer
  17. Look at yourself in the mirror and compliment yourself
  18. Sing
  19. Dance
  20. Do something you’ve always wanted to do
  21. Go for a hike
  22. Make a happiness jar and write down the best part of the day, even if it was a bad day
  23. Plan a vacation (It’s always good to have something to look forward to!)
  24. Get dressed up and go out
  25. Smile

Kick start your mind to get out of the habit of negative thoughts and get into the habit of being  a positive better person.

Got any tips of things you do when you get sad? Leave in the comments below!

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  1. Ronnie
    January 27, 2015 / 7:25 pm

    Great advice!! I also love listening to my favorite music, and like listening to the sound of outside or inside nature sounds to relax and that also makes me feel better. I already do some on your list and will try some of the others.

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